Won't go to childminder toilet at all!

[Amy7614]

Hi just wondering if somebody could give me any tips or help. My little girl is 2 1/2. I started potty training her about 8 weeks ago. We very rare get any accidents which are number 1 but number 2 are very hit and miss. She goes to childminder to a day and half a week. And she is alwayd having accidents , she refuses to use toilet. Iv tried her taking the potty reward charts stickers. The older kids have tried her to talk her into going . I'm starting to doubt myself have I done her to soon? She can go out for days out and have no accidents and tell us she need the toilet she even used a porter loo! She seems to have a fear of the childminder toilet... but we can't work out what it is. I feel so bad for the childminder coz she keeps having accidents. But I feel she to far along with us to go back to knickers. Any help would be great.

[DinoGreen]

My DS had similar issues at nursery for a few weeks - he would happily wee there but didn’t like doing a poo and had quite a few poo accidents. No advice really as it just resolved itself after a few weeks. Is there anything she specifically doesn’t like about the childminder’s toilet? Would it help to take her own toddler seat from home etc so it feels similar?

[stuckasachild]

Hi, is it possible that she's too shy to ask childminder or feels she can't interrupt cm if she's busy with other children? Is she 'allowed ' to access the toilet alone and shout for help wiping? Could cm put a potty in the corner of the room so your dd doesn't have to use the toilet? Am sure she will crack it soon