Hi was looking for a consensus on whether you would keep going with night training or give up and go back to pull ups in these circumstances.
My DD is 4 and with all the recent heat, she had been taking off her pull ups first thing, or even still in the night, because she was wet, and she said that the wet pull ups made her feel hot and sticky, (“yucky” she said) so we agreed to give night training a go.
It’s been nearly three weeks, she is much happier going to bed without them (she is sleeping bare due to the heat) but she is wetting every night and hasn’t been dry yet.
We have tried picking her up to the loo 2 times in the night, but sometimes she gets upset (she is half asleep) and doesn’t want to and resists.
DH is now saying that we can’t keep washing bedsheets every single morning, and that if she isn’t ready to go to the toilet in the night then she needs to go back to pull ups.
For a bit of back story, we had a similar thing with her day potty training when she was 2 1/2, as in, we started for a couple of weeks, then gave up and put her back in nappies, which I wish we hadn’t of done, as she was actually just beginning to get it, I think it confused her and made it even harder when we tried again a couple of months later, when she was a bit more resistant.
DH admits he has less patience than me and thinks that if she was ready, she would have cracked it by now.
I don’t want to keep her in pull-ups longer than she needs and I want to try to foster her independence and confidence so feel we should keep going without until she gets it.
I know there was a similar thread here I think yesterday or the day before which is what made me think about posting, but I think that child had some dry pull-ups, but she was younger than DD. DD is starting reception in September, I know that isn’t a problem as no one at school needs to know, but I was more thinking it might be good for her own self esteem if she didn’t have nappies, but DH thinks it will be worse for her self esteem if she id waking in a wet bed every morning.
We have got the disposable mattress protector mats, but these still allow for the sheets to get wet.
Yesterday morning, DH was really short tempered with her when he went in to change the sheets and told her off, which I thought was unfair. This morning she has obviously tried to hide it by putting the blankets and covers over the bed (I know she didn’t sleep with them on) and has not wanted me to go to her bed to change it. I told her I am not cross and she will not be in trouble, but she is denying she has wet and said she doesn’t want me to see or go in her room, and is getting herself upset.
I’ve never seen this in her before (denying me to go to her bed) and i’m Worried she has now become ashamed because of DH losing his temper with her yesterday morning.
Would appreciate your thoughts.
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Night training - to persevere or go back to pull ups WDYT?
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Userwhatevernumber · 28/07/2018 09:10
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