My middle DC is 3 years and two months. He’s totally resistant to the idea of a potty.
For context. We have a 9 month old. He’s lovely with her but seems to be struggling with his loss of ‘baby’ status. He’ll often want to sit in my knee or he’ll ask me to carry him ‘like a baby’.
My eldest is six. She is dry through the day just about. We’ve had an awful lot of intervention. Have changed schools due to lack of support with toileting in Reception (currently Y1). She’s been diagnosed with a small bladder. Hospital seem to think it will get better eventually. She’s still in pull ups at night- they’re never dry. Ever. School are excellent but it’s been a long road and she has a toileting timetable that they adhere to.
My question is about whether I should be pushing toileting with the three year old. He hates the idea. I think partly because he wants to be the baby, and partly because he’s overheard numerous conversations about his older sister and relates the potty with tears. He’s due to start school nursery in September and all his peers will be trained. My eldest is tough and doesn’t even notice if people are name calling, but he is very sensitive and would be affected. They’re chalk and cheese. The only thing they have in common is a hatred of toilets.
I know I should wait for signs of readiness. He can comprehend just fine. Should I just bin the nappies and force my way through?
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weekfour · 17/05/2018 13:58
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