So my almost 4 year old (this week) daughter refuses to use the toilet to do a poo. She has been super with her wee, and has been using the toilet to wee for about a year now. She has also stayed dry during the night and does not wear nappies to bed.
However, when she needs to poo she asks for a nappy. At first we allowed this to happen but now she's almost 4 and starting Reception soon (September) and we need to get her fully toilet trained. For the past couple of weeks we have refused to give her a nappy. When we do this she cries and refuses to sit on the toilet. After some persuasion she eventually sits on the toilet but refuses to do a poo.
This continued for 9 days and today we were so worried about her becoming constipated we gave in and let her have a nappy. She did the business and she was not constipated and managed to go without any issues. As soon as we put her back on the toilet she stopped pooing.
We have tried everything, rewards, buying gifts, punishments, naughty steps, positive/negative approach, removing toys, brown sugar and water, luctolose, prunes, increasing water intake, throwing away nappies... everything. We've read though pages and pages of suggestions on here and various other forums and have tried everything suggested. We've even given her the option to wear a nappy but while sitting on the toilet and she still refuses or doesn't go.
What can we do? Do we just let her continue using nappies and hope that one day she'll want to start using the toilet? Do we continue refusing to give her a nappy? How long can she go without going to the toilet that's considered safe? Has any one else experienced this?
This is really stressing us all out... thanks in advance.
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quaium · 28/04/2018 22:28
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