DD is 3y7m and not yet potty trained. Her communication is not at the expected level for her age although she has improved greatly in the last year as her first words were when she was 2y6m. She is awaiting paediatric assessment and has been under speech therapy team since last December.
She absolutely refuses to sit on the potty or toilet and gets distressed if we sit her on them. She will often deny being wet/dirty if asked and will only rarely tell me if she is without prompting, even though I can see she notices it happening. Putting her in pants causes her to get really distressed when she wets/soils them, as does leaving her bare.
We’ve backed off again after attempting in July and again in August as it was upsetting her so much and we have a 10 week old as well now.
Big problems are when she gets upset she stops speaking - wordless shouts and screams. She doesn’t get the concept of a sticker chart etc either, immediate consequences/rewards she does usually understand but again she gets too upset about the potty to take this on board.
How do I crack this? She’s at nursery in a school now and while she wasn’t the only one still in Nappies she soon will be if we can’t sort this out. She doesn’t seem bothered by being one of the only ones in nappies although I’m not sure she is aware of it in a peer pressure sense.
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MustBeThursday · 21/10/2017 21:49
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