Hi there everyone,
My Five year old DD has started this terrible system of just pooing her pants. We have been to the doctor/counsellor with and they confirm nothing is wrong with her health and she is not showing any signs of abuse etc. She is just lazy/ does it for attention. She holds it in all day at school and when she gets home, never uses the loo. I have tried to get her to sit on the toilet after dinner to see if we can get her into a routine, but as soon as she gets off the loo, she poos her pants!
She was fully toilet trained at two years old and this problem is only recent (last six months), nothing in her life has changed major in that time.
The thing is she won't come to me and tell me she has done it and will just sit, on the sofa, in her bedroom, in the car or walking when we are out with fully pooed knickers, it's almost like she is not bothered by the smell or mess!! Has anyone else experienced this, where their DD will just remain soiled and not care?? I don't really see a way forward apart from to keep her in pull ups and let it ride it's way out naturally. We have put her back in pull ups full time for now as she will just destroy her knickers otherwise. She wees fine and will take the pull up off to wee on the toilet. But again she will happily sit/ walk around with a pull up filled up to the brim, and the only way I can change her without it getting messy is like a baby (lying on the floor)... this makes me feel very ill having to change a five year old like a baby. Any other ideas of how to change a soiled girl without it getting everywhere? I'm really at a complete loss atm.
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gemmamummy1980 · 03/03/2017 17:48
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