I’m hoping someone can give me advice – I’m out of ideas. DD is 3y 8m old and will not poo on the toilet. She has been potty trained for a YEAR now and doesn’t have any wee accidents, except rarely at night. But she never took to pooing on the toilet. She managed it a few times, I think twice at the nursery and twice at home, but always reverted to pooing in her knickers.
She tries to withhold poo in the nursery and lets it out only when she is at home. This results in stomach pains and sometimes infections. We are worried that, if the situation does not change, she could develop serious health problems. We are also worried that she won’t learn to poo on the toilet properly before she starts school in September. We asked for advice in the nursery, children’s centres, the GP and did not heard anything other than being patient, using star charts and bribes – which produced no result for a year.
I attribute this situation to the combination of the constipation that she used to suffer from and the arrival of her baby sister 8 months ago. But she has not had the constipation for about 9-10 months now and she appears to be overcoming her wish to be babied like her sister, yet the poo situation has not improved a bit: she insists that she is not able to or does not want to (she gives both reasons) poo on the toilet. Should we force her to sit on the toilet when we notice that she is trying to do a poo? What else can we do??
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fairylightsx · 27/12/2016 00:10
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