Dd (3.10) has been dry a year + now but we have pretty much given up on pants because she has such issues with pooing. I think we are making progress in that she will now at least tell me when she has done a poo. In fact it has gone the other way and she wants it changing after doing the slightest smudge (between her and my six month old I changed ten nappies yesterday afternoon alone!). But she is still scared of.pooing and after a week on my own dealing with it (DH away) I am feeling deflated and sad for her (and myself!) that she can't get past this. It is the hardest thing about parenting I have had to deal with so far trumping even early bfing with mastitis I reckon! The problems started with constipation and escalated into a full on phobia. Nobody really understands and it is embarrassing to explain.to.familybas I have to when I stay with them (full on tantrums from nappy rash this week at my sister's after she didn't poo for three days after arriving then has been pooing since!). Only one other lovely mum I met in RL admitted to having had the same problem (I am not sure how it came up - I had only just met her when I blurted it out!)
We have tried all the usual and.followed advice from the HV. Bribery is futile though we did have a mini breakthrough when I promised her a poo party but this was shortlived. We have now resorted to a minnie mouse potty which she gets on Monday. She is excited about this... (she I think wants to do it like all her friends do but is just too scared). I am preparing myself for yet another false hope and have visions of sending her to school in princess pull ups!
I am so fed up of changing nappies! I had dc2 when she was almost 3.5 and feel like I didn't sign up to two in nappies! If I had had any idea she would still be in nappies at this age I would have waited to have a second. I feel like I have two babies! Which I always knew I wouldn't cope well with. Between that and her baby talk/regression to get my attention since dc2 I am feeling really worn down by it all.
That's it really. Just needed a rant!
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ratqueen · 23/02/2014 08:12
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