Okay, so, seem to have daytime wees perfectly under control, at least at home and slowly getting there with other people's houses/public toilets. (If nothing else he can hold it for hours )
But, DS is terrified of doing a poo on the potty or toilet. I got him to do half of one once by cheerfully popping him on halfway through an accident and he screamed like he was being tortured :( I cuddled him and reassured him all the way through and told him that he was very brave, hey, look, it wasn't that bad, you've done it! etc etc but no difference, he's still terrified.
So decided that if he really was that worried we'd let him have nappies for poos for a while longer. Only he will ask for a nappy to do a poo, and then end up keeping it on all day and doing all his wees in it, and not pooing. So it seems totally pointless. Today I said no, he could have pants on and if he needed a poo he could do it on the potty, but he's held it in all day and is currently screaming now because I think he's constipated :(
He is 3 and needs to be in pants when he starts nursery in 3 weeks. They can cope with accidents. But I don't want to go back to pants full time when he was doing so well. But it's not fair to make him make himself constipated either :( What have others done?
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BertieBotts · 14/12/2011 23:47
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