so said a 'friend' to me at the weekend.
Apparently, because I am planning to wait until DS is ready to potty train, I am being abusive to him, as he will be bullied at nursery for still wearing a nappy
I suggested that spending several months forcing him to sit on a potty for 20 minutes at a time 4 times a day, and then having weeks of accidents to clear up, would be more abusive, to him (and to me!). (Plus which, if he was bullied by fellow 3 year olds for being in a nappy, I would be complaining loudly to the nursery about their care standards and removing him from there immediately!)
DS is 26 months btw, we have DC2 due when he will be ~32 months, and he is still totally unaware that he has peed in his nappy, and still requires eye contact when defecating (which is delightful of course...). Nursery and CM have said he'll be ready in his own time, but both think he isn't yet (which I totally agree with!), and have also said it's normal in their experience for boys not to potty train until 2.5-3 years, sometimes later. I doubt that potty training will be at the top of my agenda next May/June, anyway, so unless he's ready before then, plan to wait until after DC2 arrives and settles down a bit.
My 'friend' (actually, there were 3 of them haranguing me in total) was going on about her 18 month old DS using the potty 4 times a day, in front of the TV so he'll sit on it, and sometimes he produces. They have been doing this for a while. I said, if it works for you, that's great, but we're waiting until DS is ready, which is when I was told I was being abusive.
it is normal to wait until the child is ready though, isn't it?
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Kveta · 14/12/2011 10:15
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