DD 3 and half, potty trained almost a year - 'will not!' use a toilet

[esc8]

In the early days of potty training she went to the loo and got on, I had not put the trainer seat on it and she fell in the loo, bottom first! tragic! she was stuck and mortified. She has never gone near a toilet since. I have bought different seats, used toys for role play and used all bribes. She still scared and will not! and I carry a potty everywhere. Nursery say she will in her own time .The family are making coments. Help! what do I do?? .

[watto1]

Ignore the family! Nursery is probably right and she'll do it when she's ready. Just remember that you won't be sending her off to university with a potty - she'll do it eventually!