DS is 3 and has recently started going to the preschool at our local primary for 2 half day sessions a week. He started just after Easter and so far hasn't managed to keep his pants/trousers dry for any of his sessions there. He usually wets through 2 full changes of clothes (including shoes FFS!) and just won't tell the staff there when he needs to go.
At home/out with me he rarely has accidents, and he also spends a full day with a childminder when I'm at work, and he stays dry all day with her too. If he ever does have an accident out with me, it will be a couple of drops in his pants before he tells me. He's never had accidents so badly that I've needed to change trousers,and he takes himself off to the potty/toilet without me having to ask him. I just don't understand it.
I asked the Nursery teacher about it on Monday as I was worried but she said it's really normal and lots of the kids do it when they're new etc But today I've just had a call from another worker at the Nursery (the teacher is out today) to say she's a bit worried - he's already had 2 wet accidents in the 1hr30 since I dropped him off, requiring total changes of clothes!! I'm really upset and just don't know how to get it sorted. I've been offering him a pack of stickers that he loves if he comes home with dry pants, and when I drop him off he assures me he'll ask if he needs the toilet. I've suggested they could offer him some sort of sticker incentive too, and they say they keep reminding him to go etc.
Has anyone else experienced this? I feel like they've labelled him as some sort of problem toileter now after the phonecall!!
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PinkCustard · 25/05/2011 14:01
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