I know it's the PND talking but I just CBA to clear up the pile of clean nappies DS has just pulled out of the bag. He's been kicking me while reading his books, getting in the way of DD(8 weeks) sleeping by getting in her face while I'm trying to feed her and her her to settle, and he's refusing to nap during the day.
I also pushed through my dislike of going to baby groups and went to one today for DS benefit, hoping itd help him but he's just come back tired, grumpy, and he pushed a kid over purely because he was jealous and didn't want to share. I did make him apologise, but I just feel like I'm trying so hard and yet he's not listening to me.
I'm half expecting DH to come home and be annoyed at the mess everywhere but honestly, he'll probably just get on and do the washing up and help tidy up. Which makes me feel even worse because I don't seem to be able to do it myself with the 2 kids around.
I miss being independent, I miss not having to revolve around children and being able to do whatever I want to do, and I miss not having a 2 yr old kicking my side because hes stretching his legs and finds it amusing to kick me.
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DeadDoorpost · 14/11/2019 14:33
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