I’m on verge of a breakdown

[Flower08]

I had my beautiful baby girl 3 months ago I’m on fluoxetine 60mg my problem
Is our neighbours. They are constantly loud, music playing banging all of the time there is no happy medium. Cut a long story short the council have been out to see them I’ve have shown the council the recordings of the music/banging etc and they agreed it is unacceptable and they have told the woman this and that it will be being monitored etc. It’s got so bad that we have put our home up for sale and desperately want to go although I don’t want the new homeowners to go through what we are going through and I will feel guilty. Next door is rented off the council etc. My baby had a milk intolerance and was quite ill so the sleep hasn’t been great, she still isn’t good at sleeping and is a little bugger for it lol we have been woken up today at 09:30 by stupid amounts of hammering it’s my partners only day off work and I feel we can’t relax in our home. Jump to 17:00pm tonight I’ve seen the guy pull on his drive and I’ve gone outside of my front door and my exact words were excuse me but could you please try keep the noise down or at least pre warn us that you will be banging that loud on a Sunday morning I’ve a
Poorly newborn who isn’t sleeping and think it’s quite selfish. Well the mrs who’s like a man lol came out calling me a c*nt crank n to fuck off to which I’ve just stood there laughing at her as I was so taken aback I called her embarrassing I said we didn’t want this all we want is respect I’m not asking for no noise cos that would be unfair but the banging and music from 8am until 11-12am at night is pushing us out our home I told her we had a viewing on Friday and they could hear the noise coming from nExt door etc this woman/man what ever it is has no filter and couldn’t give zero fucks that I have a newborn and I feel trapped in my own home. It’s left me crying for a hour I can’t cope anymore, I’m scared our house won’t sell I’ve recorded and sent it again to the council via email I can now hear him sanding or drilling whatever he is doing. Surely there is some law on a Sunday to not for 9 hours straight be so loud. Or I’m just not a selfish Twat and would have more respect for the people who reside next to me. Ive also given myself a scare by googling some symptoms I’ve been having due to abnormal bleeding and pain for the last 4 weeks all symptoms lead to cervical cancer and I’m at the doctors tomorrow. I feel selfish for worrying about that when it probably isn’t and other women are suffering from it :(. I just needed to vent and possibly get some advise. I’m going to end up leaving my partner and taking our baby cos I cannot stay another month in this house which was once a loving family home now it’s become prison.

Thanks for reading

[Flower08]

Not leaving him as in splitting up but leaving as it’s making me ill

[Cheery145]

Bless you - I don’t have any advice I’m afraid but I wanted to say how awful your situation sounds and I really hope you get some help from the council soon. Must be torture! Can you go and stay somewhere else for a week or so to get some sanity, like with your parents or a good friend? Not ideal of course but maybe some minor relief?

[AppleBlossomTimeNow]

Agreed. If you can, go away for a few days. Are they noisy all the time? If you get quiet spells, try to sleep or do relaxation exercises. It sounds awful x