Can anyone tell me their experiences of healing a second degree tear without stitches, either intentionally or by accident? Im worried this is going to effect my sex life more than anything....either make it tight/stiff/painful or on the other hand make it too loose down there, or all the above lol. I'm wondering if replacement of muscle with granulation tissue will make it difficult to orgasm or control the pelvic floor muscles or if it will make the vagina laxer, etc...I had a bit of first degree external tearing and the repair isn't as I'd like but I can live with that, I can't live with functional problems and I'm upset that on top of the external issue the internal ones have actually fallen out a few days later for whatever reason! I'm told the stitches coming away mean the muscle and skin will have to heal by secondary intention, eventually, how long is eventually?! Im afraid to exercise or even crouch down to pick things up, my stitches popped whilst simply lifting off a seat to rearrange my rear view mirror. Also I don't understand why the muscle wasn't stitched seperately? I thought two layers of stitches for muscle and skin was standard practice? The midwife spent five minutes stitching which doesn't seem long enough. There is no record of how many stitches were placed. I've asked an obstetrician who was either evasive or patronising, I'm not sure which, but answered none of my questions. The tear is at. 5 o clock position on the posterior vaginal wall and I'm told is about a fingers width wide and an inch long and has just gone into the top layer of muscle so it should have been minor and not have had long term consequences...if this hadnt . My stitches are still hanging loose there just not holding anything together!
Anyway, did anyone need a repair later or other procedure, and what problems necessitated that? Did it help? Did it reopen in future births? Did anyone find it made no difference to sex life...or it did and they lived with it? Also, how long did it take to heal?
Thanks! I'm just not sure what to expect and want to be prepared for all eventualities.
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Any experiences or consequences of a second degree tear after stitches broke down/left unstitched
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Idonthaveenoughtime · 07/01/2017 20:17
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