Hello kids!
I'm back. And yes Jolly, you are quite right - I don't have internet at my London flat and didn't DARE use my phone...especially with our shiny new thread which I didn't want to trash
Basically, they have offered me redundancy. The meeting was cordial, if a little awkward. They haven't offered me quite enough money (stingy sods) so I am going to see what I can negotiate. I would rather work but enough is enough. I am not being egotistical when I say they don't deserve me. I will find something else. I do feel sort of discarded but that's only in silly moments - self respect has got to count for something and if I am really honest I think I would have found it hard to carry on working for these myrmidons so that's that...onward and upward and other helpful cliches. Got back from London this morn and had lunch with Dad and his wife who were in the area. I don't have a fab relationship with my father but it was nice to see him actually. My stepmother's brother is getting married (he is 52) and his bride is 24. So my Dad, aged 71, will have a 24 year old SIL. Crazy...
Happy Birthday Modern Love! And thank you for your kind thoughts. Hope you are being spoiled.
NJAN - you sounded so blue earlier in the week about your relationship. Hmm. Sounds like you definitely need to ringfence a bit of time that's just for your DH and you. It's so hard though, I do agree. I honestly think time apart helps put the zing in my relationship. Which sounds awful, when you really think about it...But proper, dressing up dates are nice too. Is that a possibility?
Summer, KP and Arti are all on hols and I didn't say bye I have been so wrapped up in my travails last couple of weeks. Oh, and Daisy as well.
PMK - glad the move is behind you. Looking forward to the housewarming party
Veggie, you did brilliantly with the cycle ride. Wowzers! I am super impressed with your fortitude.
WG - sorry your sleep'expert' (hum) was such a washout. Any further thoughts on the controlled crying? Thinking of you. When does your one day a week back at work start?
Welcome back Spiggy, I was wondering where you had got to. Sorry about the leak - must be something in the air, with Jolly's leak as well.
Oh, and happy anniversary to JJ, Kiwi and Indith.
Kayz - any news re: whether it's more economical for you to stay at home?
Trace - good luck for Monday. You'll ace it I am sure, though any new job is hard at first.
DD came out for a meal with me again last night to a gastropub near my flat. She just sat in the buggy playing with a squeaky Ronald Reagan toy (well, sort of a toy) then just fell asleep after her supper and I just flipped the buggy back and put the hood up. I know the clock is ticking on this sort of night out and I wonder what I will do when she is a toddler and it is no longer feasible...
Well, girls, I am off to a wedding tomorrow. It is a Fancy Dress Wedding. Unbelievable but true. A good friend of mine has an obsession with fancy dress (oddly this is the employment lawyer) and he is insistent that every single wedding guest wears fancy dress. The theme is.................................................................................................. .................................................................................................... .................................................................................................... .................................................................................................... .........................the United Nations. Yup.
I am going as Bahrain and DP will be Ghana. I have no idea whether these countries are in fact in the UN, but it was the best I could rustle up from the thankfully very cosmopolitan charity shops of West London. If anyone has read my DH's cricket book, it's the same bloke who dressed up as Santa Claus in Argentina. He isn't wearing fancy dress for the wedding, though. The bride, groom and bridesmaids are let off.
Have smashing weekends all. Glad the Yorkshire meet up went well.