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Aug 2008: Cheeky chappies & lovely lassies show us all who's boss

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SazzlesA Sun 19-Jul-09 15:53:00

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steaknife Sun 19-Jul-09 16:17:09

Finally got it out of him.

It is not normal for Izzy to still be waking at night.
It is not normal for me to still be breastfeeding her.
It is damaging her because the bond with me is too strong and she wont be soothed by anyone else/go to anyone else.
He has never liked the fact I breastfed after she was small, that was normal.
We should have got her to take a bottle - then she would have slept through.
It is my fault she wont take a bottle (actually yes I was too lazy to try and get her to take a bottle - only so many fights I have the energy for and that one seemed quite pointless.)
I do not integrate
I do not want to work
He never gets his way in the decisions regarding Isabelle.

But despite that he does not think I am a bad mother and he does not hate me.

Sigh sigh sigh sigh sigh. It is too too too too hard.

<grabs bottles, clanks over to the corner and collapses on a chair - meeps into her drink>

SazzlesA Sun 19-Jul-09 16:25:53

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steaknife Sun 19-Jul-09 16:33:34

1 - tried telling him that but he wont believe me.
2 - sigh, I thought he had accepted even if he didn't like it.
3 - he actually said that the bond should be broken, I said that the answer was to strengthen her relationships with other family members. I really was that diplomatic.
4 - never even told me that before.
5 & 6 - well why would I bother when he said he wouldn't do night feeds if she was on the bottle?
7 - he has done it, twice so must be easy but he wasn't at home with a baby he was out in the world.
8 - I do. I want to set up a stall on the market.
9 - sometimes if you disagree someone has to give way and get over it.

10 - gee thanks.

hic

steaknife Sun 19-Jul-09 16:35:58

meep meep meep

SazzlesA Sun 19-Jul-09 16:37:18

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SazzlesA Sun 19-Jul-09 16:40:48

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sad angry

So lets just say if you did everything that he wants. (please don't btw)
Would that then make everything ok in his world eye??
Would things sunddenly become great?

<<takes a quick swig,hopes noone notices>>

hic

CaptainCaveman Sun 19-Jul-09 17:13:27

OOOHHHHHH look at what you have done with the thread sawwles - it's lovely grin. I especially love the chocolate fountain, and I see you've installed a bar, good girl! grin

streakypants wink what a first class wanker. I'm sorry, that may seem a little rude to someone you care a lot about. Sazz is right though, you are doing a fab job in incredibly difficult circumstances. Is he unique or do all french men think like that? hmm

Hi no1 have you finished with your pony porn yet? I do hope you didn't make a mess on your keyboard? wink grin

Calling all you FBGs - I want to bake a scrummy chocolate cake for O's bday. Only I'm an FBI (fecking baking imbecile). Any good (easy) recipes for me?

SazzlesA Sun 19-Jul-09 17:22:27

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Lol cc still checking ou the porn grin
In fact spent some time with dd on her own today and went to a horse show. was lovely.
I am currently checking out new pole dance dvd as mine is getting boring grin

cheers sazzles
<clink>

oopsacoconut Sun 19-Jul-09 17:34:14

<<burp>>

Marcus is sat here, feeding himself with an empty spoon, eating a biscuit in other hand and pushing/straining gasping and going red.

Oh the stench. om my I don't want to look. I can't work out if he is trying to kiss or bite me now, he is biting a lot lately.
Oh I must go and change him.
back soon.
<<holds nose and gags>>

AnnVan Sun 19-Jul-09 17:39:29

steaky gosh sad
Tell Monsieur Steak to read this message from me: My baby is ten months old, he wakes up at night, he still breastfeeds, he won't take a bottle, his Daddy has a very strong bond with him because he HELPS and is involved in everyday things with Seb.

oopsacoconut Sun 19-Jul-09 17:45:15

Lunch was delicious, we share a meat antipasta to start then I had seabass with spicy chickpeas and finished with banana and chocolate brownies. I am fit to burst.

Steaky - Sorry to hear things have deteriorated - You are doing nothing different to what many of us are doing, DD does not sleep through, she is still BF with a very small bottle at bedtime, she won'tbe settled by anyone but me, if anything goes wrong I am her first point of call. I have had a hard time integrating here and they speak my language here! It is hard to find like minded people who share your interests.

No1 - hope it's not too big a poo to clean up.

CC give me a moment and I will link you to a easy choccie cake.

Sazzles - Hi

oops glad you have already eaten. sounds yum.
Just had first ever nappy explosion.
Anway how long before it is a problem re messy nappies.
Sorry for tmi,but his stools are usually firm, they have been vile now for a week or more not too sure blush

oopsacoconut Sun 19-Jul-09 18:03:40

for Cece

hotterpotter Sun 19-Jul-09 18:14:38

Oooh Oops that's a good looking chocolate cake grin I really can't decide what sort of cake to make for DS, never mind what shape. We are currently considering dinosaur and rocket. Suppose I should work out how many might come before I decide how big the cake needs to be...

Steaky your DH is a twat sad sorry I don't have anything constructive to add, but I'd punch him for you if you wanted.

Bath time, DD developing a bit of a cough, oh oh sad

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