Hi all, I had my baby 3 weeks ago, and think i'm starting to come down off the "high" now and realise how much hard work it is! Everyone is giving me different advice, and yesterday, when my dh went back to work and we had our first day alone together, instead of me enjoying it, I spent most of it crying when she did!
My questions are:
when she is crying and i have checked nappy, hungry, cold, hot etc and found nothing to be wrong, what can i do to stop the crying?! It makes me feel like i'm doing something wrong and that she hates me!(I know rationally that she doesnt!)
Also, she seems to hate her moses basket and wants me to hold her all the time - my mother says i am spoiling her doing this and making a rod for my own back - what is your advice on this? Should i leave her to cry in her basket or go running to pick her up?
When is the best time to change a nappy, before or after a feed? The hospital told me before, but my family says they always did it after...
How many times in a night should i change the nappy? At every feed, or leave it longer so as not to disturb her (unless i can smell poo!)
How can you distinguish between PND and just baby blues?
That's it for now! It may be hours or even tomorrow before i can read your answers but any advice i will be grateful for! I love being a mother but i didnt realise just how much of a mammoth job it is, completely overwhelming!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Join our Postnatal Clubs forum to find parenting advice for newborns.
Post-natal clubs
New baby, loads of questions, can anyone help?
7 replies
waiting4bambino · 25/03/2008 09:28
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.