As a single parent I am very upset and angry about Cameron blaming single parents for the riots.
I am taking it personally (although I wasn't involved) because he is vilifying and undermining the great work that many single parents do. Bad parenting can happen in 1-parent families but it also happens when there are two parents. It has also been proved that children's health can be affected in a negative way if the parents are constantly arguing. A child's emotional intelligence can also be undermined if the relationships within the family are negative.
It seems to me that the Tories have been waiting for a chance to vilify us. Many single parents, like myself, do paid work as well as voluntary work in their community.
At the moment I feel marginalized and I don't feel that I belong to Cameron's Utopia of 2 parent families where life is beautiful.
As someone who was brought up by a single parent, who did remarry, I can honestly say that my childhood traumas began when my stepfather joined our family. He sexually and physically abused me and other members of my family.
In my opinion 2-parent families are not always a good thing but as a single parent I would welcome sharing familial responsibilities as it can make life easier. However, this only works when the relationships within the family are positive. None of this is considered in the discussions around living in a 2-parent family.
I also think that structural issues such as the rich getting richer and the poor getting poorer should be considered. I am not saying that being poor means that you should cause damage but I am well aware of some of the frustrations that people are feeling at the moment. (I am definitely now one of them!)
There is a saying that people will either talk or torch. Many people have been on the peaceful protests and have signed petitions but life still seems to be getting harder for the majority of people. Only people earning over £100,000 seem to be OK.
Who will be looking in to this? It is too easy to blame single parents who are vulnerable in many ways.
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Is anybody else angry about Cameron blaming single parents for the riots?
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Twylah · 16/08/2011 12:30
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