I realise that it is an emotional luxury to post something of this nature in light of the terrible things that happened last Thursday when so many have suffered, but here goes......
Recently I've been thinking about happiness, and how that manifests itself in day to day life. I have much to be grateful for - my own health, wonderful dd, financial stability, good friends, etc. Of course, there are some things I would change/improve if I had a magic wand, but generally, things are fine. However, I have a nagging feeling that I could be happier.
For many periods of my life, (like many others) I have had severe difficulties - chronic and extended family illness, deaths, relationship falling apart/ending, extreme work issues, etc. Finally, that long period of turmoil has ended, and for the past few years things have thankfully been calmer.
I realised the other day that I have tended to define happiness in my own life as a lack of conflict or struggle. So, if life is generally calm (ie with only normal "bumps"), I think I have little to complain about, so I should therefore feel happy.
But, here are my questions - how do you define happiness? How do you achieve it? Is it a general state or small "golden" moments to be relished and treasured? Are my expectations too high? Is it a mental shift to move from the "neutral" territory of "things are fine" to the "positive" territory of "I love my life and feel happy"? Would love to hear your thoughts....
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Happiness - how do you define/achieve it?
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Earlybird · 11/07/2005 09:18
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