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Dream Analysis - recurring theme

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dalek Sun 03-Aug-08 10:49:07

I wonder if anyone can help me. For the last couple of weeks I have been dreaming that my H has left me - there's no great big fight - he's left me - he continues to see my dd and is civil. In my dreams I ask him if we can try again and he says no as he can't be with me. I miss him so much in my dream but he just doesn't want to be with me. In RL everything is fine - he works long hours but always has done - I do get lonely but I've sory of got used to it.

Normally I would just dismiss any dreams but because this was has recurred with such regularity it's starting to bother me. Is my sub conscious trying to tell me something or should I just ignore it?

If you've read this far thank you. I have to pop out now but will be in out so will check for any replies later.


DutchOma Sun 03-Aug-08 11:48:03

I think, for what it's worth, that your subconscience is telling you that you are afraid that your husband may leave you. So rather than ignore it, I would be extra nice to him, I would tell him about the dream and deal with any niggles that you have about your marriage. If it still continues I think you could then safely ignore it.
Be nice to yourself as well.

dalek Sun 03-Aug-08 15:01:17

Thanks for your reply Dutchoma. I just worry that something is staring me in the face but I'm too stupid to see it so subconscious is trying to point it out to me.

DutchOma Sun 03-Aug-08 17:37:22

Just had another look at your first post and noticed that you said H, not dh as is usual. Was that intentional?

dalek Sun 03-Aug-08 23:27:55

No it wasn't. Told him about the dreams today - he told me not to be so silly - sensitive type - not!

Thank God for mumsnet - just being able to tell someone has mde me feel better - Thanks Dutchoma.


DutchOma Mon 04-Aug-08 12:01:08

It's a pleasure me duck, as they say in Northampton.

twicer Thu 07-Aug-08 18:20:23

Maybe there's some "transference" involved. It might be that you are the one who is dissatisfied with the marriage, and you've projected your feelings onto him in the dream. Is that possible?

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