Hi all
I just wondered if anyone could relate to this experience.
Some friends had their baby baptised last week. I am not a believer but I have found churches comforting and often pop to St Martins during the week when I need headspace from work.
I don't know much about anything, but when I got the invitation I was surprised to see the type of church it was as the friends in question have never tried to "convert" anyone that I know of.
anyway, I thought I would just keep an open mind and went along expecting it to be quite nice.
but something about it - it's still bugging me. something about it made me feel very uncomfortable. Some people were being confirmed in the same service, their speeches were quite overwhelmingly OTT.
when there was bread and wine - which I can't do obvs - there were ushers or something trying to get those of us who were still seated to go up.
Overwhelming it just felt like claiming love for Jesus and not much else. I was seated with an elderly relative of the friends; she kept asking me "what's going on" and said afterwards that it didn't seem anything like the church services she is used to.
it felt very noisy - vicar played guitar - and dramatic.
to be clear, I have no interest in this because none of it is for me anyway. But I went past it today while running errands, someone was outside - a church worker I guess - and asking people in for tea. And she recognised me and I felt in a hurry to get away.
A strong sense of unease....also I hope this doesn't offend anyone but I think they run the Alpha course and years ago, I had a friend whose mother did the Alpha course and it caused a lot of issues in their relationship, so my friend is very anti Alpha, though I tend to take the view that most people worship in a personal way.
I just wondered what others thought. Googling suggests this kind of church is very popular. interested to hear views.
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Evangelical church made me uncomfortable
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Grace212 · 27/05/2019 14:15
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