Just been to church with my mum, not been since my grandad passed.
Feeling a bit because we were there for my mum iyswim (first father's day), but happy to have had a message.
He apparently found my look of horror at getting a message amusing I've never had anything before!
All in all, he is happy, what he went through has helped him now, and he is working with my non-believing grandmother to help my future.
(I did end up looking insane as I first thought they meant my living gran as a - I still forget a lot of the time that my other one is gone (I didn't get to go to the funeral and its left things in limbo for me), and b - his wife is a medium so it makes sense that he is talking to her!!)
Well according to our teachers not everyone can be a medium. I see almost slide shows sometimes and sense things, ie ailments? I'm much better psychically, I think we all have that, it's just we've not needed it over the years. Sometimes I can connect well with spirits but others I'm blank. It takes a lot of time and patience to become one although I'm sure some are just born with it.
I'm sure some experienced medium's are around and they may explain better?
Glad you've heard from him Flamey. You really should get over the shock of stuff like this by now though
Just wait until you have someone (thanks mum) ringing you up, demanding you ring your older sister (other end of the country) to find out who is telling porkies over some undisclosed problem! All courtesy of dad pointing out said problem that needs sorting, apparently by me (cheers dad). WTF?!
Dad passed in 1999 but he still likes to keep his finger on the pulse of family life.