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Is this incredibly disrespectful?

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GrandCru Sun 22-Oct-17 18:17:02

Been out with this guy about 3 times. He'd asked me to swing by an exhibition he was exhibiting at earlier today. Popped by. Turns out the other people at his stall were his mum and his sister. (He told me this later). He didn't bother to acknowledge my existence in front of them. Not even a "this is my friend XX."

I find that really rude. Am I overreacting.

To make matters worse he was then saying let's meet up later. You'd surely imagine that would mean for a drink or bite to eat. Instead he says, "I'll come round to yours later," and started making loads of sexual comments, like how he is going to "give it to me", how he hopes I'll be wearing just sexy lingerie etc. We've not even had sex.

What on earth?

DanHumphreyIsA Sun 22-Oct-17 18:21:09

I was thinking maybe its not so bad. Was he busy, was there a big audience, so he couldn’t really stop the exhibit?

Then I read the last part. Don’t let there be a 4th date.

GrandCru Sun 22-Oct-17 18:25:48

Well he says he is calling later to arrange what time to come over.

I think it's best I simply don't pick up the phone

AtrociousCircumstance Sun 22-Oct-17 18:27:37

Dump. He’s a wanker.

Why is this in philosophy/religion btw?

gigi556 Sun 22-Oct-17 18:30:19

Run. This guy is a twat.

Vitalogy Sun 22-Oct-17 18:43:14

Block him. Sorry you've had a bad experience. The dating game nightmare!

GrandCru Sun 22-Oct-17 18:49:33

I thought this was in Relationships lol

RebelFreddyVSRogueJason Sun 22-Oct-17 18:59:27

Dump. Dump. Dump.

GrandCru Sun 22-Oct-17 19:02:49

Really shocked by what a prick he's turned out to be.

MrsMozart Sun 22-Oct-17 19:04:15

Block block block!

RebelFreddyVSRogueJason Sun 22-Oct-17 19:50:29

At least he’s shown his true colours quickly and you haven’t wasted too much time on him. Silver lining and all that .

GrandCru Sun 22-Oct-17 19:55:14

Is it possible to move this thread to the correct section?

GrandCru Sun 22-Oct-17 19:57:26


His sense of entitlement feels astonishing to me. He really seemed to think sex tonight is guaranteed and that he can just come over to my home at whatever time suits him and get his leg over. I've no idea why. We've not had sex and I've made it clear to him that I don't have sex outside of an exclusive relationship.

At one point he was going on in such graphic detail that I simply said "For f*ck's sake!" He replied: "Yes, I'd love to fuck you later." He said this in front of a couple of audience members (but not in a loud voice).

RebelFreddyVSRogueJason Sun 22-Oct-17 20:28:38

Dunno maybe he thought his art or whatever he had was so mindblowingly amazing that you couldn’t possibly contain yourself.
Or maybe he’s one of those men that doesn’t bother with anyone/puts any effort in unless sex is on the cards and ge assumes everyone is rhe same.
Or he’s simply an entitled jerk that thinks he can demand sex from anyone,anytime.
Either way he’s a complete dick .

Dozer Sun 22-Oct-17 20:31:25

grin that posters’ advice is the same in the religion section!

What a loser. And yes, even before the lewd texting he was very rude.

buttercup54321 Thu 09-Nov-17 20:11:58

dump the loser.

worldslaziestmum Thu 09-Nov-17 20:16:54

All in agreement (makes a change) dump him

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