...have grown up in a non-practising family, with a Jewish father and non-Jewish mother (she did convert to pacify her MIL, but it was total nonsense really).
dh is Jewish, but wasn't brought up with any rituals or religion either. Though he does have more of a Jewish identity, in an ill-defined sort of way.
And we live in an area of London that has hardly any Jews living in it.
It's all horribly vague. And now my lovely 9 year old, in reaction to a conversation I started about exploring that side of our heritage, burst into tears and said she didn't want to be Jewish, and wasn't going to be Jewish, because she was scared 'because they used to measure people's noses and then kill them for being Jewish'
We talked it all through, she got good and angry with Hitler and has calmed down, we talked about all the other minorities that have been persecuted, all the religions that have warred, and how right she is to react to something horrific with horror....but I feel dreadful that the only real input she's picked up is the Holocaust.
I'm not looking to immerse her or us in anything, but would love to access some positive images/role models/aspects of culture and don't know where to start. Should I email the Rabbi of our nearest Synagogue? But that's religion, not culture....any ideas?
All tips and advice gratefully received. I feel horribly clueless and ignorant.
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Elibean · 21/05/2013 12:58
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