At the end of last year my 16 year old turned around to me and said she didn't want to go to church any more as she doesn't believe any more. This shocked me but I respected her decision.
I am still confused as she has told me since that she is agnostic. We changed churches last year and she started at the new church first. She said that she really found a place that suited her. I joined her a month later as I felt I had to pray about my move before leaving the old church.
She seemed really "on fire" for God and looking forward to helping out at new wine this year.
Then she made some new friends and her decision happened. She said it wasn't anything to do with them but she must have discussed it with them. She has since lost her virginity, been out with 2 guys in short succession and now she is in a "no strings, friends with benefits" relationship.
She went out with a group of her mates and one them kissed her as part of a truth or dare thing. She tried to kiss him again later and he backed away.
She told me that she has found out that her sexuality is one where she likes personalities more than people or something.
It seems to me that she is going through a lot of confusing times about herself. I am there to listen but I don't feel that I can do much else but pray for her as she can't see how this effects her spirit. Why would she if she has turned her back on God.
Anyone else been through anything similar?
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My Teen has turned her back on God
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TurnTables · 28/03/2013 23:53
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