I was baptized and raised RC, right down to 12 years of Catholic school. I have gone through highs and lows in regards to my faith and have found that the times I have been most comfortable with my faith are when I can question (ask questions, have open dialogue, etc) with peers in my faith. I am not from the UK and while I've lived here for a few years I haven't settled into a church here and miss the "family" of the church (and having people I can talk to in a religious/questioning way).
I now have one child (ToddlerScout, aka as TS) who will be two at the end of this month. We have had him baptized RC (MrScout is CofE but not religious) and had it done at the church I grew up attending (where my parents still attend). It was lovely and felt very right right to me. The church I could attend here (the one that's not stupidly far away) only has one Mass a weekend and it is, unfortunately, not a very convenient time in regards to TS's "routine," etc but I have found even when I took him when he was a handheld I was distracted (and therefore didn't feel "good" going). I know I should go without TS but that doesn't feel right, either, as I want to share the joy/calmness/peace I get by going to Mass (both during and after).
My SiL & her family, who is SOOOOO much more devote than I (to the point where it's the only thing they can than think/talk about it) has a handful of children and they're at church several times a week. Those kids don't dare move in church (even the baby, who's just a few months older than TS), only have freinds from their church, lecture adults in how they should behave, etc. I look at her and feel inadequate in my taking-TS-to-Mass skills (as in, I don't have any because I know that TS wouldn't sit for an hour and the church here doesn't have facilities for crying babies/active young tots).
So one of my questions is at what point do I try to take TS to chuch with me again? Is it worth continuing to take him even if I find him distracting/don't think we would get anything out of it for a bit?
I have a lot of questions as I'm trying to regain my faith-footing again (it's not gone but it's not as strong as it has been in the past nor as strong as I'd like it to be) but fear if I kept going I'd fill the page with incomprehesable babble....
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Scout19075 · 13/10/2011 14:17
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