I have been doing the RCIA course to become a Catholic and I'm really enjoying it. Thank you to everyone here for your advice and inspiration to getting to this stage!
I have always believed in God but I wasn't brought up in a religious household (it was a very loving household, just not religious!) My Dad had a rough time at a Priest boarding school, far from his home when he was growing up and therefore rejected the church in later years. I always wanted to go to church but I didn't have the confidence to go on my own, plus I didn't know which church to go to and whether I'd be welcome.
It sounds really juvenile but my desire to go to church got stronger when I studied RS at school. The teachings of Jesus just all seemed to make sense to me and I started to pray regularly. I kept flitting with the idea of going to church throughout uni but still didn't have the confidence. After I graduated I started teaching in a CofE school and really loved going to services and singing and worshipping together. There still felt like there was something missing though.
When I got pregnant I'd had a lot of bleeding towards the end and almost lost my baby during the birth. But my beautiful little girl was fine and I really put this miracle down to God. Shortly afterwards my Gran passed away at the age of 98 and it was clear leading up to this how strong her Catholic faith was to her. She told me how much she would love me to find her faith so for all those reasons I was determined to start going to church.
I rang the Priest and he suggested I go to the RCIA course and start attending mass. I've been going to mass a few times a week and I just find it so humbling, fulfilling, inspiring...I can't really put it into words but I know its the right thing.
Anyway, since learning more and more about the Catholic faith it is becoming more important to me to have my 18 month old baptised. Its hard to explain why, its almost like I'm being called to do it. I also really want her to have the opportunity to grow with the faith I was never really exposed to, in the lovely Catholic community of the church and attend our local Catholic School. My husband is really uncomfortable with the idea of her being baptised though. He is a lovely, moral person but has no belief whatsoever. He thinks that by baptising DD we are pushing her into a faith and not letting her make her own choices. Do you think he is right? He says that the only reason he would have her baptised is to get her into the excellent school, but he doesn't feel right doing this (which I can understand). I've tried to explain that's its much more than this to me but he struggles see my point of view. I do think I could persuade him but I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable during the ceremony or for him to be worried if I take DD to mass.
What do you think I should do? Any advice would be so appreciated, thank you.
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mollysmum82 · 10/03/2011 12:53
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