HI.
I am a dog person (I love cats also and we have 2 lovely mogs), but haven't had one for years, initially due to instability (I was moving around a lot). Then I got stability, but 2 kids came along, so it seemed sensible to wait until the right time.
I have been thinking about a dog for a while now, but sort of waiting for the right situation to come along. I didn't want to buy a dog, since I think there are plenty that need love and affection that need adopting. However, I didn't want to necessarily get a rescue dog, since you don't always have a clear idea of temperament and ability to socialise with other dogs/ kids. I have always loved labs and had them when I was a kid. I was also kind of against getting a puppy because I worried that, at this point in my life, trying to train a dog and going through all the weeing/ chewing/ tugging phases would just be too much for us to cope with (I have managed it several times in the past tho).
Now, an aquaintance who runs a kennel and has a lot of dogs as pets has offered me a 2 year old black lab (female). She was a rescue dog and was mistreated (don't know all the details), but has lived in the household with other dogs and with children the same ages as mine (ds1 is almost 4, ds2 is almost 2). We have seen her and I think she is very well behaved from what I have seen, she is also very friendly and the boys got on well with her (and vice versa).
It would be perfect except for the fact that dh is not very keen, and in our relationship I am always the one that is convincing him to do stuff he doesn't want to do. We have discussed it at length and have agreed to proceed slowly (we are taking the dog for a 'date' at the park at the weekend to see how we all get along, no commitment yet tho, poor girl). he says he doesn't like her (she is 'too big'), and would prefer to wait until the boys are older and get a puppy (or not at all, most likely). I am making him sound like a real kill joy and he isn't, but he is verrrry cautious and hates change, and I want to respect that.
Whew, this is a long one. Any comments?
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oregonianabroad · 05/01/2009 21:09
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