Hi everyone, new to mumsnet, hope you're all good!
I'm hoping I could get some feedback on my current dilema.
A quick summary of the background; I was a single mum to two autistic children for around 5 years, moved around alot, and for the last two years I found a lovely town to live in, my childrens needs were finally being met and theyre getting the support they need. I moved into the first property I could find relocating here, it's not the most ideal place to live but I made the most of it.
I got married this summer and as a family we feel its time to find a house.
We live on the second floor (the stairs are an arm killer with dragging up shopping - I also have fibromyalgia so this impacts my joints), its extremely cold in here all the time due to exposed brick features and stupidly highly ceilings (mill conversion). There is a mezzanine which is a hazard, my son tries to climb it from time to time. There is no gas in this building so as you can imagine living off tiny electric heaters and water heaters, my bills are becoming unmanageable. In the summer its not too bad but being in a valley in yorkshire its pretty much always cold and wet lol.
Outside situation is the worst due to being right next to a busy main road with very limited parking options. Having two children with very limited understanding of dangers, you can imagine how difficult it is for us to guarantee they are always safe when coming in and out.
Don't get me wrong it's a beautiful apartment and I think any couple would find this a good long term home, the rent isn't cheap so I'd like to be able to save a bit of money. There are alot of nuances to this situation but you get the general idea of the conditions.
I bought a kitten recently, shes 4 months now, the kids love having her but it was mostly to keep me company whilst they were at school and partner was at work. You've probably concluded what the issue is. I'm desperate to find a suitable home for my family, especially for my children. But majority of the places I have seen landlords are very strict when it comes to pets despite offering to pay a larger deposit etc.
I've been looking for a while now and I'm finding myself having to consider giving her away for a better home for my family. This doesnt make me feel like a good person at all.
If any of you could share any similar experiences or any words of advice or just love I would appreciate that!
Thankyou so much,
merrygodream x
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