Before I get completely annihilated, please hear me out. I know if I read that title, I would say no no no, but if you think there is a glimmer of hope this might work I would like to try.....
Our daughter has been begging us for a dog for 3 years. After careful consideration and months of research we found a lovely breeder and put a deposit down earlier this year. We are hoping to pick up the puppy Christmas week because we are all off for 3 weeks then. It will not be from Santa, its a new family member.
Anyway, I just found out I am pregnant. (yay) This is such fantastic news, we are absolutely delighted.
I know puppies are an absolute nightmare, they wreck everything and a very stressful, I know I should cancel the puppy and wait for a few more years to get a dog, however I really don't want to do that to my daughter.
She is such a good child and the only thing she has ever wanted was a dog, even my dad says he has never met a child so in love with dogs. She spends all day drawing them, she only wears dog clothes and pyjamas and she really has a great way with them. She has a very minor heart issue and I realised earlier this year, if anything happened that little girl, she would have spent her entire little life begging for something we could have easily given her. So we decided to go for it. We are ready.
Or we were ready, the pregnancy definitely changes things.
Although i have had two miscarriages this year and although I feel this pregnancy is going to be ok, there are no guarantees.
Also I think the puppy would keep me so occupied and stressed then I would not be worrying about the pregnancy. (rose tinted glasses here)
So the timing would be, puppy at Christmas time at 12 weeks old.
Then if we are very lucky, a newborn baby in July when the puppy is 10 months old.
I will take your advice, I will. Also regarding a rescue, I picked this breed because I have experience with them and know they will be a good fit for our family. I can cancel and postpone the dog, the breeder is decent.
Taking all of that into account, do you have any advice for me? Is it possible this situation might work?
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3luckystars · 24/10/2015 10:28
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