I'm celebrating my 40th this summer and found a venue. Due to the date of my birthday most venues are booked already. I am not a drinker but all my friends are. We regularly socialise. Mostly school mums and I am the youngest from our group but I have friends. I am looking at 60/70 people. The venue is however very restricted in our own catering or alcohol or even desserts. They finally agreed that I could get the food I wanted and allowed me to have a dessert table on top of the birthday cake but my guests must pay for their drinks.
I was searching Mumsnet for etiquettes on invites/Facebook etc when I found a few threads on cash bars being complete no no's. I am hoping some friends will be joining me who is not near. Can I go ahead and invite and mention "Cash Bar".
Also can I do all of this on Facebook only. I was thinking a Facebook group with edited invite with all details as it is a smart event.
Please help me not mess this up as each and every one of my friends know I do not drink but I am always invited to Gin Nights out so its never been an issue with my mocktails.
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FairyFuckDailyMail · 03/02/2019 22:48
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