Hi all, I'm new here and not actually a mum (although ttc) I'm looking for some advice and hoping this may be the place!
Long story so bear with me please. My niece (12) and nephew(5) have been living with me for the past few months as my sister has been really ill and having treatment in hospital. They're great kids and have been so good through everything. My niece is an amazing help with her brother and no matter how many times I encourage her to go and be a teenager she stays in and helps out. It's her 13th Birthday in May and at first she told me and her mum she didn't want a party with everything going on etc. But the last few weeks she's been coming home all excited because most of her close friends are starting to plan their big 13th Birthday bashes. After the hospital visit tonight she got a bit teary and told me she really wants to do something exciting and fun but feels bad cause her mum is so poorly. My heart broke a little at this! I spoke to my sister on the phone and without going into detail I mentioned that niece may want a party after all and my sister is relieved as doesn't want niece to miss out but just doesn't think she can handle the organisation etc. So I said of course I was happy to organise along with her input etc.
So onto the questions!
- Having asked my niece she doesn't really know what she wants to do except she would like her 5 best girls invited. Any ideas greatly appreciated!
- I want to make this special as she really is a great kid and never spoilt. Any ideas of something to make it memorable?
- I'd like to offer to pay for it. My husband and I don't struggle for money and with sister not working for the past year I know she's not exactly flush, she's not a prideful person and I think she will take the gesture as intended but how do I bring it up without an awkward conversation?
Would really appreciate any advice from you mummy/teengirl experts!
Thank you 🙂