There are only 6 children at DD's preschool - should i invite them all to her party?

[Mandymoo]

Personally, i would rather save any hassle and invite them all but dd says she doesnt want to - think it would be very hard not to tbh. What do you think>? It will be her 4th btw

[TooTicky]

How many does shewant to invite? 3 or 4 would be okay but not 5.

[twelveyeargap]

If she wants to leave out one or two, it might be worth trying to ask her how she'd feel if she was the only one not invited to a party. Seems a little harsh on the one kid left out.

Also, if there are only one or two invited, you do sometimes get that "party elitism" "haha, you're not invited" with the ones who are going. Kids can be so mean without realising it.

If she only wants to invite the girls, then I think everyone accepts that.