I know it's pretty standard to say don't do it, they won't remember, etc etc, but I threw an absolutely massive party for DD1 with about 100 people, marquee, soft play, bouncy castle, magician, entertainer, loads of food & drink wine for kids & adults, sweetie buffet, spent about 6 months planning it!
So... I have to throw DD2 a big fantastic party as well.
I don't want it to be a carbon copy of DD1's parties. 1 was the above with lots of butterflies, flowers & pink. 2 was fairies and elves with a loose Ben & Holly theme, and 3rd was Alice In Wonderland.
I really really need some brilliant ideas. It will be about 6 babies, 10-15 toddlers, 20 other aged children, then about 40+ adults.