DD will be 4 soon, she really wants a party, but we don't have much money this year and really need some cost cutting ideas - including the number of people invited.
Her nursery class is small and everyone invites the whole class, hires a hall and an entertainer. The main problem is that many of her friends have just left nursery and started school, so she would like to invite her school friends as she has known them for longer, but also has to invite everyone from nursery. This all adds up to around 35-40 children, plus around 20 adults, which includes a few siblings, as they are never left out. I cannot afford to give party bags to that many and feed them too.
I tried to broach the subject with a few of the mums about having small parties and they just said that they all large parties for ages 4 and 5 and stop after that as otherwise people get offended.
I thought about only inviting girls, but there are a couple of boys that she is really good friends with too and wouldn't want a party without.
We can't afford the entertainer, so will have to try and entertain them ourselves, which I am dreading esp. that many.
Shall I just run away and pretend that DD isn't having a birthday or can anyone come up with some practical suggestions for reducing numbers?
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Lucky13 · 05/10/2011 12:25
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