I am in a bit of a dilemma here. i have two boys, two years apart who are very different characters. They do get on well sometimes and do care about each other a lot, but there is also intense rivalry and increasingly, verbal needling and bickering/arguing. Ds1 often feels hard done by as ds2 is much more outgoing and popular whereas ds1 has less well developed social skills.
Anyway, their birthdays are only a few days apart. Last year, ds1 had a party for which ds2 was too young, so he couldn't come and I had to find a friend to take him for the day. Ds1 went to ds2's party the same weekend.
This year, ds1 turns 10 and has chosen a party that ds2 could go to, if i organise it after he turns 8, but not if it takes place before his birthday. ds1 is now making a big fuss that he doesn't want ds2 at his party. I feel that this is mean and I am inclined to insist that ds2 is allowed to come to the party, but I am wondering if I am doing the right thing. wwyd?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Whether you're planning a birthday or a hen do, you'll find plenty of ideas for your celebration on our Party forum.
Parties/celebrations
ds1 doesn't want ds2 at his birthday party - wwyd?
49 replies
elliott · 04/09/2011 20:38
OP posts:
Newsletters you might like
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.