I'm sorry if this is a mad ramble, my brain is mush at the moment.
Found out yesterday that my landlord is selling the house. We've been here for 7 years without problems (we as in me, my partner and my 20 year old son). I'm disabled, my partner works away during the week, we lost my mum earlier this year and my elderly father who lives 10 minutes away needs my support.
My partner is now renting a flat near to where he works (recently transferred to a different city) through his business as its cheaper than a basic hotel or b & b. Sometimes I visit him for a couple of days mid week and it is nice to be 'away' for a break as I rarely see my son and spend most of my time alone.
Ds is 20. He works f/t but never has any money. He smokes weed and I suspect other substances are or have been involved.
Basically I don't know what to do now regards living arrangements. I could move to where my partner is and come up to visit/stay with my dad. Son says he'd like his own space and would 'find places to stay'. This isn't what I want. I want him to have a home, to be settled. I worry about him. He doesn't seem to be able to manage his finances well. Sadly he does nothing around the house to help out and it's a strain to get him to acknowledge me with a simple hello. I suppose he uses the place as a hotel and takes it for granted that I've always got his back.
I'm tired. I'm ill. I'm scared. I feel pretty pathetic and overwhelmed right now. I don't know where to go from here. Any advice please?
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poppym12 · 28/11/2019 07:09
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