Step kids

(5 Posts)
strebor5 Mon 23-Sep-19 23:26:41

I have 2 children from a previous marriage aged 21 and 18. My husband of only one year does not like them, considers them lazy and I've been a bad parent so far. He had a previous marriage of 18 years and was a step father to 2 girls for their entire adult life but actively encouraged them to leave home at 18 and threw one out at 18!!!! I want my kids to be comfortable at home with us but they're obviously not. Do I choose my husband or my kids. I don't want them to hate me.

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Hopingtobeamum Mon 23-Sep-19 23:30:48

Has he always not liked them?

pallasathena Sun 06-Oct-19 22:34:47

Choose your kids. You can get another bloke anytime if you're that desperate...
Your kids are very special and unique.
Don't lose them through making stupid choices.

JoxerGoesToStuttgart Sun 06-Oct-19 22:36:16

confused

Why on earth did you marry this asshole?

Singlenotsingle Sun 06-Oct-19 22:38:22

Husbands are replaceable. Children are not.

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