Rant....I have two adult children at home - I'm 68. I just want peace! They both left, then came back after relationship breakups and there seems to be no end in sight. I've read other posts, and there is that common element of guilt we all seem to feel to a greater or lesser extent. I think of the scene in 'Shirley Valentine' when the daughter comes home and demands to looked after as if she was a child again. Shirley buys that ticket to Greece and doesn't come back. I understand that movie now better than ever! Everybody wants looking after!! To be fair if I get sick they'll look after me (including husband). But the difference is it's not a day to day expectation by me that somebody will look after me, let me take my bad mood out on them expecting passive response, get them to do stuff for me and then complain it's not right etc. Shall I just leave? Fuck
guilt ridden motherhood! (38years- I'd get less for murder!!)
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Coffeeground · 24/06/2019 12:05
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