20 year old dd lives at home, still studying. Going away to uni in September.
She has been going out with her first boyfriend for 6 months and he lives about 2 miles away, He is also a student. They are very close and loved up.
She often stays at his house and he at ours. However DH hates him staying at ours for several 'reasons' and the atmosphere can be awful when bf is here, although bf doesnt know why!!
Anyway DH has now decreed that he doesnt want bf to stay at ours because:
He (dh):
needs his privacy
Doesn't see why they need to stay at each other's houses
Bf costs money to feed
Doesn't like them being intimate under HIS roof
Feels awkward at bf walking around the house in dds dressing gown/night wear. (He accidentally copped an eyeful recently)
Personally I love to see her so happy and he seems to be good for her. He is respectful and helpful and I just don't see the problem. I have said I will talk to them; really to save DH from hurting their feelings. But I think it's wrong as it is her home too. This will just drive her away. I'm so sad
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KelpianCasserole · 08/04/2019 07:15
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