My partner and I are getting married very soon and although we have been together for 3 years, our kids have never met the reason being that my daughters age 24 and 19 are never around much. My fiance has two daughters also and they are age 18 and 13 who live with their mother half a hours drive away. It's just never really happened due to circumstances and his eldest being very shy and she suffers with anxiety. Now the meeting has been arranged in a restaurant but I confess I'm nervous because I'm worried about awkward silences. Has anyone else had this type of situation and what advice do you have?