Does any one else feel this way?
I thought I could not have children so rushed into marriage thinking it was ok to make a bad choice as no children and if he was not the best husband we could divorce no children no harm done.
Got pregnant survived a bad pregnancy, survived an extremely abusive husband then divorced him.
Had a horrible life.
Children who are now adults had a horrible life with me being difficult then trying to make up for it, real see saw mother from bad to terrible to trying to be good.
Ex husband continued to be abusive extended family also abusive both sides.
Went to live in a council house I am from a wealthy family got hated by friends and family and neighbours for being in a council house.
Got laughed at by local charities for asking for help as I am from a rich family.
Got only abuse from every person.
Terrible way to live for me and my children no matter what I did I was wrong even working then doing voluntary work all wrong always judged, rich people in council houses are hated and not helped. If your birth family wont help but pretend to help you are condemned severely as no one helps.
i can not get counselling as I do not say i am suicidal.
To sum up horrible life made me a horrible mother and my children do not like each other will not spend time together even Christmas day, Mothers Day my birthday any of their birthdays.
I really regret having children.
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Jackieohoh · 18/07/2018 19:11
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