DFB has been living back at home for a year since he failed an MA and was re-sitting whilst living at home but has failed again. DFB has a 12 hour minimum wage job but has not had any job interviews and not sure how much effort he is putting in looking for work. ds2 home from uni with no work. Wasn't so bad with one at home but they spend all day playing computer games just coming down to make "snacks" and depositing copious amounts of dishes. They do load dishwasher but generally don't speak to me much except to ask me to bring home crisps, biscuits or telling me off for forgetting to bring home bread. I work 60hrs plus and dp more. It feels like I am just a meal ticket to them. Before they left for uni I had 2 wonderful ds's and I missed them so much but now I feel more lonely in my own home and can't face making yet another meal that all three males in the house will eat or seeing my hard work returned un-eaten. Have been crying today and keeping to myself since dfb walked off not wanting to speak to me this morning. Don't know what to say as it's nearly dinner time and no Sunday roast on the go.
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