My daughter is 19 and getting married, I am paying for everything for the wedding and she gets mad when I have told her to stay on budget but other than that, thats all I asked, and when she went over, I said it was okay but that she needs to pay for the floral as she wanted different more expensive flowers that weren't included. I spent around 10 thousand US dollars and thats alot for me. His family hasnt done 1 thing, they are paying for the rehearsal dinner but are doing it at their house. Yesterday I paid the remaining owed. Anyways, today I see on Facebook she and her Fiance had his parents over at their apartment and made them lunch. My daughter has never invited me over and it severely hurt me as while I don't expect anything in return it would be nice to be shown some appreciation especially because they asked me to pay for the wedding and I happily said yes. It was more or less expected from me. So when I see his mother post a picture thanking them for the wonderful lunch that they went out of their way doing it crushed me. I just paid the remaining balance yesterday. They haven't done anything nor split any bill. Im not expecting a thank you lunch but it would of been nice to be included. Besides paying for the wedding I bought her an expensive dress that she went over budget as well and then had to pay an extra 425 to get it fitted and to be nice I bought her and her bridesmaid things. Plus I bought the flower girl dresses and ring bearer suit this week. They never spend time with me, their always with his parents. Am I overacting that im hurt they did this nice lunch for them and didn't include me?
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