I am at home only 2 days a week (plus weekends) so I'm ashamed to be struggling. I know lots of people have more children, less support, in much more difficult circumstances. I'm feeling pretty crap about it but would still like some advice, please, as I want to start tackling the problem.
The problem is me. DC are fine, typical 2.1 and 3.4 yo children, lots of energy, want my constant attention. They play together but I do have to referee a fair bit. But they are not the issue really.
It's me, I just really don't enjoy my days at home. And want to, or at least enjoy them a bit more. At the moment I feel like I'm just willing the time to pass as quickly as possible, I get in a weird depressed kind of mode on these days where I do nothing else (no housework really, nothing else, more time on the computer with them watching tv than I would like to admit). THey are happy enough I think. I get very frustrated with the mess, the effort it takes to do ANYTHING, the boredom, I feel tired and lethargic which is rubbish.
That sounds bad - I do take them to playgroup/soft play at least one morning and we're often out at people's houses. It's a good life but inside I just feel I'm not really doing these days and I hate feeling this low-lever kind of resentment (not of them at all just at life in general or something). Am fine the rest of the time, happy and busy at work so it's just these days.
My only idea would be to kind of timetable my days so I don't even have to think about it. I could timetable it so I had to take part in things and wouldn't allow myself computer time at all. But I have no idea how to even go about it. Neither of them naps anymore so it's a full day. Any ideas? Suggestions?
I'm desperately hoping someone will say I'm not alone in this as I do feel such an ungrateful terrible mother for feeling this way. I enjoy the time much more when DP is around or visiting family but just me and them is... I don't know, it's not good.
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Struggling with toddlers in the day - any tips on "timetabling" to improve things?
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NorkilyChallenged · 24/06/2010 21:48
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