Hi all, this is probably a stupid question but I have to ask.
Parents with more than one child, how did you decide when the time was right? I know its probably impossible to quantify, much like the decision to have a baby full stop, but I'd love to know if you dont mind?
We have a 10 1/2 month old DD who is the best thing on earth (of course!) and I've recently gone back to work. DH and I have been discussing when to try for number 2. We've always said we want to have 2 or 3 children, but now that we have DD I find myself stressing out at the prospect of trying for a second.
DH is keen to start soon: he suggested trying in August which is the month after DD turns 1, but I'm still unsure.
Actually, thats a massive understatement--the idea of trying to get pregnant fills me with terror! I had a wonderful pregnancy and birth and DD is such a joy, but I'm scared to have another one. I just keep on coming up with excuses for not having another baby, even though I do want one.
I think DH is confused because I was so certain when we started trying with DD and he's a bit thrown by me hesitance this time.
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Worries over trying for #2
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LittleWhiteWolf · 26/05/2010 15:27
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