I'm 12 weeks pregnanct with second child and would be really looking forward to it if DH wasn't being so negative about it.
He says that his life is stressful enough at the minute without having another child to give his time and attention to and is worried that 2 children will just bicker all the time. He actually came out and suggested I have an abortion as "life is great just now and this is just going to ruin it!"
Our DD is nearly two and sometimes a bit of a handful but she is loving and totally dotes on her dad and gives him loads of cuddles. I'm a SAHM and DH works long hours so it's pretty much me doing all the childcare and housework, I just think that having a second child won't make things too much harder, other than the initial no sleep baby period. We already have all the baby stuff and enough room and aren't short of cash. We weren't using reliable contraception (withdrawal method hmmm) so pregnancy was bound to happen sooner or later.
Anyway I'm rambling - can you please enlighten me with your comments about how life changed once you had DC2?! Whats harder/different? Did your relationship suffer?
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senseofhumourfailure · 25/05/2010 21:13
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