:-( Ok, how do I cope with the emotions?

[MrsWobbleTheWaitress]

How do I cope with my emotions when my PFB gets to an age where she starts thinking (realising?) I'm a shit mum?

Actually, I think I'm a bloody good mum, and I know this is a normal stage, and that however good I am, she won't realise it until she grows up and/or has her own children.

But I know this stage will last for a bloody long time now, and probably just get worse.

How do I cope with it? It cuts me up so much to hear her complaining about me to my mum.