DD1 (9) has a girl she's been best mates with for ages, they have tea at each others houses, stay over the night etc. But for the last two weeks the girl has started to be really nasty to DD.
DD has racked her brains, but can't think of anything she's done that's sparked it all off, she's asked the girl but she just puts her fingers in her ears and wont listen.
I'm a bit reluctant to get involved, the girl is really really nice normally, kind and thoughtful, doesn't take things to heart, so for her to start behaving like this is unusual.
She's trying to get other children not to play with DD, lying and telling them DD has hurt her by stamping on her feet (which DD says she hadn't), when DD said 'OK then lets not play together' the girl followed her around saying nasty things to her and about her to other children.
I know it all sounds very playground! Well, they are only 9 but it's just going on and on. The girl rang DD the night before last to say she was sorry and could they be friends which DD was happy about, but the next day it was just the same.
I'm not sure what else to suggest to her. I've said for her to be nice to the girl whatever she does/says, because she has been a good friend to her, and it's progressed to me saying ignore her, which is hard for her to do when the girl is following her around. The Mum is lovely, but like I said, I'm a bit reluctant to get any more involved than just advising DD.
I know I'm only getting half the story, but any advice would be gratefully received
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I'd be really grateful if anyone's got any advice on how to deal with DD (9) and her friend.
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AgentZigzag · 13/05/2010 14:36
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